For Referring Professionals

Clinical Focus

I specialize in working with high-capacity men under relational and performance pressure whose shame and stress-triggered reactivity strain their marriages, parenting, or leadership.

Common referral presentations include:

• Shame-driven reactivity

• Sexual insecurity or avoidance

• Irritability masking depression

• Emotional shutdown in couples work

• Men motivated for change but struggling with capacity

Approach

My work focuses on growing emotional strength through structured self-compassion practices, emotional regulation training, and relational skill-building.

I integrate research on self-compassion, grief, and depression with depth-oriented psychotherapy.

Ideal Referral Fit

This is a good fit for men who:

• Are motivated and reflective

• Are willing to examine impact

• Need individual depth work alongside couples therapy

• Want accountability without shaming

Not a Fit If

• Active addiction without stabilization

• Acute domestic violence situations

• Court-mandated participation without motivation

Collaboration

I value coordinated care and welcome communication when appropriate and consented.

How to Refer

You may:

• Share my website directly

• Email an introduction

• Encourage application to Compassionate Men

I am not paneled with any insurance at this time