For men who are “losing it” under pressure and want to be more steady, connected, and wholehearted.

When pressure builds, old patterns take over

When stress, conflict, or emotional overload spill into the relationships you care about most - something important is at risk.

When pressure mounts and emotional capacity constricts, you lose the connection you want most.

How This Work Helps You

Together, we work toward:

Interrupting shame-driven reactivity
Regulating emotions under stress
Responding rather than reacting
Communicating with instead of defending or withdrawing
Repairing ruptures and rebuilding connection

About the work

I’m a licensed psychotherapist working with individuals and groups — online and in person — to help people slow reactivity, expand their emotional capacity, and strengthen connection, especially when relationships feel demanding.

My approach integrates:

Depth-oriented psychotherapy
Nervous system and emotion regulation
Relational and attachment awareness
Compassion-focused practices delivered in plain language

ways to Work together

Individual Therapy
Depth-oriented, relational therapy for emotional capacity and steadiness.

Compassionate Men and Rekindling Togetherness
A structured cohort experience focused on emotional strength through self-compassion.

Leadership & Teaching
Workshops and speaking on emotional strength under pressure, including my work with Iron and Fire Leadership Institute.

What starting looks like

Schedule a free 15-minute consultation
We’ll briefly talk about what’s happening and see if this feels like a good fit.
Begin focused, weekly therapy or group cohort
Sessions are collaborative, contained, and oriented toward stabilization and clarity.
Decide what’s next
Some people come for short-term support; others continue into deeper work once things stabilize.

👉 Schedule your consultation

CALL OR TEXT now

Sessions & Fees

Online or In-office

Free initial consultation available.

50 minute individual sessions are $195
90 minute individual/couple sessions are $275

"Though trust has never come easily for me, I trust Jeffrey completely. He is a mystic with a doctorate, a wild man acquainted with grief, and a skilled psychotherapist most at home in nature.”
W. Campbell White, MA, LMHC
"Jeffrey has a way of sharing his gifts with people while still feeling very human and accessible. He is also very fun and funny – in a fully embodied and appropriate way.”
Cyndi Hedel
Sex, Love and Relationship Coach
LMP & Mistress of Ceremonies
"Jeffrey steps into uncomfortable or awkward spaces with a great deal of competency and compassion."
Sarah Steinke LMHC
“His regard for respectful and meaningful relationships to self, others, and his environment is Truth in action. I highly recommend Jeffrey's therapy. Our world needs this!!”
Karen Kerns
“Jeffrey has been an important, wise guide for me over the past several years. Through our times together he has listened well to my story and cultivated a deeper appreciation for beauty within me. I am so grateful for his presence, play, and voice in my life.”
Paul Hoard PhD LMHC
I have been on wilderness experiences where Jeffrey has been the leader, and he has shown himself to be a competent guide, who is not only at home in that context but also very aware of myriad emotions that participants may experience. He is quite accomplished at alerting us as to what might come up internally for us in those settings.
Paul Stoltenberg
“Jeffrey Batstone is a knowledgeable wilderness ritual guide. Recently, I had a very intense spiritual experience that took me into a deep space, a place I had never been before, yet I knew I was safe with Jeffrey.”
Ted Eagle
“I have had the privilege of experiencing Dr. Batstone's love, passion, and knowledge of combining the outdoors with redemptive work… Eco -Therapy. He knows that the wilderness is the place of challenge and transformation, and he brings it to bear for his clients.”
Mary Jane Apple, LMHC